I know what you're thinking...another tearjerker just in time for the holidays. Trust me, this one is good.
Be sure to read the very last line!!
Sandra felt as low as the heels of her shoes when she pulled open the
Florist shop door, against a November gust of wind. Her life had been
As sweet as a spring breeze and then, in the fourth month of her
Second pregnancy, a "minor" automobile accident stole her joy. This
Was Thanksgiving week and the time she should have delivered their
Infant son. She grieved over their loss.
Troubles had multiplied. Her husband's company "threatened" to
Transfer his job to a new location. Her sister had called to say that
She could not come for her long awaited holiday visit. What's worse,
Sandra's friend suggested that Sandra's grief was a God-given path to
Maturity that would allow her to empathize with others who suffer.
"She has no idea what I'm feeling," thought Sandra with a shudder.
"Thanksgiving? Thankful for what?" she wondered. "For a careless
Driver whose truck was hardly scratched when he rear-ended her? For
An airbag that saved her life, but took her child's?"
"Good afternoon, can I help you?"
Sandra was startled by the approach of the shop clerk. "I ... I need
An arrangement, " stammered Sandra.
"For Thanksgiving? I'm convinced that flowers tell stories," she
Continued. "Are you looking for something that conveys 'gratitude'
This Tha nksgiving?"
"Not exactly!" Sandra blurted out. "In the last five months,
Everything that could go wrong has gone wrong."
Sandra regretted her outburst, and was surprised when the clerk said,
"I have the perfect arrangement for you."
Then the bell on the door rang, and the clerk greeted the new
Customer, "Hi, Barbara, let me get your order." She excused herself
And walked back to a small workroom, then quickly reappeared, carrying
An arrangement of greenery, bows, and what appeared to be long-stemmed
Thorny roses. Except the ends of the rose stems were neatly snipped:
There were no flowers.
"Do you want these in a box?" asked the clerk. Sandra watched - was
This a joke? Who would want rose stems with no flowers! She waited
For laughter, but neither woman laughed.
"Yes, please," Barbara replied with an appreciative smile. "You'd
Think after three years of getting the special, I wouldn't be so moved
By its is gnificance, but I can feel it right here, all over again,"
She said, as she gently tapped her chest.
Sandra stammered, "Ah, that lady just left with ... Uh ... She left
With no flowers!"
"That's right," said the clerk. "I cut off the flowers. That's the
'Special'. I call it the Thanksgiving Thorns Bouquet. Barbara came
Into the shop three years ago, feeling much as you do today,"
Explained the clerk. "She thought she had very little to be thankful
For. She had just lost her father to cancer; the family business was
Failing; her son had gotten into drugs; and she was facing major
Surgery. That same year I had lost my husband," continued the clerk.
"For the first time in my life, I had to spend the holidays alone. I
Had no children, no husband, no family nearby, and too much debt to
Allow any travel."
"So what did you do?" asked Sandra.
"I learned to be thankful for thorns," answered the clerk quietly.
"I've always thanked God for the good things in my life and I never
Questioned Him why those good things happened to me, but when the bad
Stuff hit, I cried out, 'Why? Why me?!' It took time for me to learn
That the dark times are important to our faith! I have always enjoyed
The 'flowers' of my life, but it took the thorns to show me the beauty
Of God's comfort! You know, the Bible says that God comforts us when
We're afflicted, and from His consol ation we learn to comfort
Others."
Sandra sucked in her breath, as she thought about what her friend had
Tried to tell her. "I guess the truth is I don't want comfort. I've
Lost a baby and I'm angry with God."
Just then someone else walked in the shop. "Hey, Phil!" the clerk
Greeted the balding, rotund man.
"My wife sent me in to get our usual Thanksgiving arrangement ...
Twelve thorny, long-stemmed stems!" laughed Phil as the clerk handed
Him a tissue wrapped arrangement from the refrigerator.
"Those are for your wife?" asked Sandra incredulously. "Do you mind
Telling me why she wants a bouquet that looks like that?"
"Four years ago, my wife and I nearly divorced," Phil replied. "After
Forty years, we were in a real mess, but with the Lord's grace and
guidance, we trudged through problem after problem, the Lord rescued
our marriag e. Jenny here (the clerk) told me she kept a vase of rose
stems to remind her of what she had learned from "thorny" times. That
was good enough for me. I took home some of those stems. My wife and
I decided to label each one for a specific "problem" and give thanks
for what that problem taught us."
As Phil paid the clerk, he said to Sandra, "I highly recommend the Special!"
"I don't know if I can be thankful for the thorns in my life" Sandra
said to the clerk. "It's all too ... fresh."
"Well," the clerk replied carefully, "my experi ence has shown me that
the thorns make the roses more precious. We treasure God's
providential care more during trouble than at any other time.
Remember that it was a crown of thorns that Jesus wore so we might
know His love. Don't resent the thorns."
Tears rolled down Sandra's cheeks. For the first time since the
accident, she loosened her grip on her resentment.
"I 'll take those twelve long-stemmed thorns, please," she managed to choke out.
"I hoped you would," said the clerk gently. "I'll have them ready in a minute."
"Thank you. What do I owe you?"
"Nothing. Nothing but a promise to allow God to heal your heart. The
first year's arrangement is always on me."
The clerk smiled and handed a card to Sandra. "I'll attach this card
to your arrangement, but maybe you would like to read it first."
It read:
"My God, I have never thanked You for my thorns. I have thanked You a
t housand times for my roses, but never once for my thorns. Teach me
the glory of the cross I bear; teach me the value of my thorns. Show
me that I have climbed closer to You along the path of pain. Show me
that, through my tears, the colors of Your rainbow look much more
brilliant."
Praise Him for the roses; thank Him for the thorns.
God Bless all of you. Be thankful for all that the Lord does for you.
"Live simply, love generously, care deeply, speak kindly, and leave
the rest to God."
We often try to fix problems with WD-40 and Duct tape. God did it with nails